Daphne82

PLEASE, READ THIS FIRST:
I'm currently not looking for new online or offline sexual partners. If we're meant to share intimacy, you'd already know. Others need not apply.

When you see me in chatrooms, I'm here for casual and friendly conversations or to connect with an already established partner —I hope you'll respect that. Please respect my boundaries, including avoiding the following: sending unsolicited fantasies or links, calling me by pet names or honorifics when we don't have an established relationship or asking me questions about my personal experiences. Vocaroos as an introduction are welcome when they are respectful and mindful of my boundaries.

Approach me as a whole person. Despite my profile, I often have to reiterate this.

If you can't respect my boundaries, please refrain from PMing me. Thank you.

In General:
If my profile seems too long to read, we might not click.
If you're bothered by women discussing chat etiquette or stating boundaries after unsolicited advances, we might not click.
If you respond with "BUT THIS IS A SEX SITE" to boundary-setting, we might not click.
If you engage from a place of toxic masculinity or mansplain, we might not click.

I do enjoy making friends, often in the Phone Fun room. I'm inclined towards voice connections but prefer starting with text. My boundaries are firm even in voice conversations.

I've been on Literotica for nearly a decade and was active in the kink community. I'm submissive but very selective about partners, both online as well as offline. In fact, I don't value and cherish online partners any less than I do offline partners. Most of my offline relationships initially started online (as well as long distance). I treasure genuine connection.

Despite being stand-offish to sexual advances from strangers, I'm friendly to those who genuinely want to know me as a person and who respect my boundaries. Kindness is key.

I occasionally create audio erotica and welcome feedback. My erotica is for anyone to enjoy. However, as stated many times now, personal connections are selective—please don't ask to be considered.

Many say they love my profile but often miss parts. To ensure you've read this, share your favorite movie or book and why—it could be a great conversation starter!
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BELOW IS MY OLD PROFILE. I'M KEEPING IT HERE FOR MY OWN PURPOSES BUT PLEASE KNOW THAT THE PROFILE ABOVE IS WHAT IS RELEVANT AT THIS TIME (JUNE 2024).

Plus-size woman in Europe, exploring her submissive desires. I match best with a gentleman Dom who understands me and is respectful of my feminist views and career-mindedness, but who recognises my passion, warmth and eagerness to please. He understands these traits can very well be combined.

The right Dominant for me is around my own age or up to 15 years older. He is sensual, caring, warm, elegant, firm and carries himself with a quiet confidence. He looks for that connection, the way that I do and is able to luxuriate in that moment of chemistry and tension, when the air is thick with desire and arousal. Delaying the moment and waiting for it to be just precisely right. He expresses himself well and knows how to use his voice.

I really like articulate, native English speakers (UK/USA/Canada in particular). I'm a bit of an Anglophile, I suppose. I travel to the UK and US often enough and when the connection is right, I am not opposed to meeting.

The men who enter my life in such a way are generally my own age or up to 15 years older. I'm not attracted to younger men. I simply mentally connect best with (emotionally) mature and empathic men. Those I'm most attracted to tend to be accomplished, confident professionals in life. Being well-spoken with a reasonable level of intelligence and good hygiene/personal grooming skills is a must.

Voices turn me on. Those velvety voices that know how to make your toes curl. Wizards with words who drop every syllable with just the right diction and intonation. It has little to do with pitch, but rather with intent.

I'm plus-size (hormonal imbalance), but I don't wish to be fetishized for it. Attraction to plus-size women is fine, but remarks about the size of any part of my body is a huge turn-off to me.

I'm open to making new friends, but let's start with sensible conversations if you'd like to connect!