PushByondOurSlvs

I’m a dominant man who has not been practicing for about 8 years. I want to get back into the lifestyle. I enjoy pushing boundaries and want to lean in to the dominant aspects of my sexual authenticity.

I’m half of a fantastic ethically non monogamous marriage. My wife is encouraging me to pursue a sub. She wants me to be satisfied in every aspect of my sexuality.
My ideal person would be a friend who wants a sexual/sensual dom/sub dynamic and understands that my marriage is my number one priority at all times.

Any bisexual women who would be interested in pursuing a friends with benefits arrangement with my wife and a dom/sub dynamic with me would be our ideal, but is in no way a deal breaker.

I travel often to the Chicago area, Phoenix, Las Vegas, Denver/Southern Colorado, and Southern California. Interested women in those areas please reach out also.

My philosophy on domination is based on the ideas of control and empowerment. Through my actions I will empower a woman who, when she submits, will give over control of her pleasure.

I am sensual and playful. I will make you flush as I whisper a playful name in your ear at dinner with my hand in your hair or on your thigh.

Imagine an evening of fine dining, teasing, and conversation leading to a play session that is not rushed or hurried, but is focused on mutual satisfaction. I end the night feeling powerful from the control you have given me and you end the night feeling empowered and cared after.

I am disciplined, patient, and creative. I like to have rules, and use symbology to create anticipation. I ask you to wear your favorite necklace for me. We’ve agreed it symbolizes a sensual act you love, use of your favorite toy while your hands are bound, for example. You anticipate the feeling, the sensations all evening trusting that I’ll give you that experience.

I believe aftercare is essential and a big part of the empowerment I mentioned above. You’ll be held, praised, cleaned, soothed, and built back up if needed.

I will not verbally or physically degrade you. Your submission and trust are a generous gift and will be cherished and appreciated.