The stories that follow are true tales of my sexual journey. They are based upon true events and relationships. Some have been embellished a bit just for entertainment purposes, and of course the dialogue is not likely to be 100% accurate in every instance since these events happened over a period of more than ten years, and there was alcohol involved in some of them, but for the most part everything is true and accurate.
My name is Phil. As background, I grew up in Virginia and have lived in southern Virginia my whole life. I had one serious high school girlfriend, and then in college I pretty much played the field. I am 6’5”, about 240 pounds, former college athlete at a D-1 school in Virginia. I’ve kept in shape with almost daily exercise – running, weight lifting etc.
These tales begin while I was still married. I met my wife Caitlin in graduate school, where I was studying forensic accounting. Unlike the other women I had dated and been with previous to meeting her, she was serious and ambitious, and at that stage of my life, I figured it was time to settle down with someone like her, have a real relationship, raise a family etc.
We had a good and active sex life, and she knew from the start that I had a high sex drive. We didn’t do anything crazy, but we covered all the basics and the quality was usually pretty good. Some things were a no go for her, but that was fine with me. I had had plenty of crazy sex in college so I didn’t feel like I would be missing out on anything.
But as our family grew and life became busy, we fell victim to the same old story. Caitlin wanted sex less and less frequently, and accused me of being horny all the time. If I reminded her that she knew this and always liked that about me, she would scold me for not growing up. So, we ended up splitting up.
I have come to enjoy rough sex as the dominant party, sometimes combined with a dose of humiliation, with the right partner. Everything from spanking and hair pulling, to name calling, spitting, and golden showers. I don’t do it with everyone, and over the years have been a pretty good judge of who would like it and who might not.
I know it seems that I’ve been very lucky when it comes to sex, but luck comes from confidence. Women are attracted to confident, alpha male types. But believe me, I’ve struck out way more than I’ve scored.
I write these stories now during my second marriage, with the encouragement and assistance of my second wife, who is a fine editor as well. Some of the stories are not super exciting, but you take the bad with the good, and I decided if I’m going to tell my story, I need to tell it in full.
location
southern VA