The 'Lee Guide

Introductions

Dear readers,

I had spent so long trying to find the perfect T#%kler that I indeed forgot about how I could be the perfect T#%klee. Sometimes we get so caught up in what we want, we forget about who we are becoming! So, for you I have written the companion piece to the The 'Ler Guide: The 'Lee Guide.

Enjoy your T#%kles.

To The T#%klees

So there could be a million reasons why you are reading this little how-to-guide. You may be a T#%klee looking for some interesting new advice. Hoping that something new will pop up across your research. In which case I do hope I provide some interesting new insights.

You might be a regular person who has just found out their partner has a T#%kling fetish. If this is the case then -- pull up your socks! This guide will take you through everything you can think of.

It might interest you to know that throughout the human race, T#%kling has been a social bonding activity and is considered the highest grade of social play. To different degrees for each individual- T#%kling can be pleasurable socially, intimately, or playfully. In this sense it is very much like any other intimate interaction.

Consider massages for example: some people find them relaxing and share this activity between friends, while others find it arousing and include it within foreplay. Nibbling on the ears: Some people find this completely intoxicating and they lose all ability to think, while others find it uncomfortable and invasive.

T#%kling may sound like an odd thing to be aroused by at first, but any T#%klee will tell you - it's a pleasure of torture, which just so happens to be less commonly enjoyed than others.

Normality and Violation.

Ok, don't freak out when you read the words ' physiology' and ' scientific fact'. This is a very simple guide! However, I have delved into the science behind T#%kling a little bit because arousal is a science. If you just want to get to the juicy bits- skip this section! Although, it may prove helpful to understand how and why people are T#%klish, scientifically.

This is an important little fact to know. The physiology of laughter and T#%kling tells us that the response of laugher and squirming, is a reaction to the combined sensations that are a violation, and sensations that are perceived as normal. Many people who are not T#%klish, are only so as they sense no violation in the contact they are feeling. For many people, they need to perceive some kind of playful threat/ or attack, in order to feel the violation/normal touch combo.

T#%kling itself is a combination of feeling 'touch' and 'pain' together. The body reacts in a way that tells your subconscious- "get away or you might get bruised". Hence the squirming and struggling response. However, when a person truly believes there is no threat within this kind of contact- then they only feel it as "normal" touch. Without the crucial combination of the two, a person would not be T#%klish.

Now before we get ahead of ourselves, the paragraphs above only apply to one kind of T#%kling. Gargalesis: refers to harder, laughter-inducing T#%kling, and involves the repeated application of high pressure to sensitive areas (1)

The type of T#%kling needed to satisfy a T#%klee will depend on each individual. There is no right or wrong way to feel a sensation. As the T#%klee, you will know if you enjoy high pressure T#%kling or lighter touches. Also remember that this is a grey area. Some of us will want light and hard T#%kling in different places on our bodies. Some will want you to alternate between these touches in the same place.

On another note, is it considered that we as humans began squirming from T#%kling, as a way of teaching our bodies where our weak points will be in combat. Once again- this scientific fact brings us to the notion of violation/violence. After all, there is a reason people call it- "T#%kle torture".

This in itself explains why some people find T#%kling to be painful though. Everyone is different. And for some people they do not feel any normality in this kind of touch- they only feel the violation and the pain. So, for those of you who are too T#%klish for your own liking... the sad news it that overexposure is key to getting less T#%klish. Overexposure gets a person used to that sort of touch. Eventually it is viewed as normal... and the more a person is T#%kled the more normal it becomes.

This is also why a lot of people experience becoming less T#%klish as they get older. The 'touch' sensation becomes normal. They feel less of a threat. However, this is not true for everyone. How you 'perceive' the T#%kling touch (normal/violation) is completely within your control. You may even notice here now that unlike the T#%kler guide, I do not actually write out the magical T word in full. There is a reason for this that you will come to understand while reading this guide.

Now all the information above are facts from various websites I've researched. I've pieced certain things together and came to my own conclusions in regards to a way to become more/ less T#%klish. I know for certain there is the way to become less T#%klish. there is plenty of evidence to suggest that. However, by way of becoming more T#%klish- note that changing your perception and thought patterns on the subject are not an overnight task.

Now ask your fellow T#%klee's, I'm sure they would agree: Being blindfolded enhances the experience. This is because when a person cannot see where the contact is coming from, it enhances the unpredictability of the touch and therefore the feeling of a 'threat'.

Threat is the violation; you are in danger! Your body is exposed and sensitive. You cannot escape. You are a little weak mess of giggles and no way can you stop the attack!

The Mind Set

Gosh where to start. This is really a job for both the T#%klee and the T#%kler. Partnerships allow you to build a concept together, make something a reality. It's easier to convince yourself that you are vulnerable, when you are being T#%klgasmed against your will each night.

However, I'm writing this guide for T#%klees -- and some of you may not have access to an eager T#%kler just yet. This is perfectly fine. The power to be vulnerable is in your hands.

Imagine I said to you: Hey I'm going to fuck you really hard tonight. Imagine I said this throughout the day. Teasingly. Sexually. Longingly. Threatening. Imagine every now and then I just slipped it into conversation.

By the end of the day most people would be horny as hell - more so than if I had said it the second before being intimate. The thought of having intercourse has been stewing and running through your mind all day. You have become worked up about it.

You're T#%klish. So fucken T#%klish. I'm going to attack your poor little toes tonight. I'm going to squeeze and wriggle across your ribs. You're going to be T#%kled shitless tonight. You're inner thighs are mine, you T#%klish brat. I'm going to have the soles of your feet begging for mercy. T#%kle. T#%kle. T#%kle. T#%kle. T#%kle. T#%kle. T#%kle. T#%kle. T#%kle. T#%kle. T#%kle.

When a T#%kler can tease and taunt you throughout the day -- it will certainly make things heightened. Whispered threats of T#%kle attacks in ear. Descriptions where and how you will be T#%kled.

Rule number one for a T#%klee (of course optional but follow if you dare) -- never ever, never ever, EVER -- say the word T#%kle. Don't say it. Just don't.

Now maybe you're a switch -- maybe you want to wield the power of the word as well! That is perfectly fine. However, when you are being the T#%klee, this is the rule. Make it obvious to yourself when you are the weaker half of yourself. Maybe you dress differently, to expose yourself a little? Or maybe you talk more shyly when you are under the grips of a dangerously sadistic T#%kler?

Let's imagine you have a phobia of spiders. Would you often bring up spiders? If you were deathly afraid of them, would you mutter the word spider to yourself? Or would the mere mention of the word be unpleasant to your ears?

I don't think you would bring them up.

I think, being afraid of something makes you want to avoid it in every sense of the word. The more you avoid spiders, the more fearful you become of them. You are in fact teaching your brain through repeated behaviours and thoughts, that spiders are a threat to you.

Now rule number 1 applies here as you want to start teaching your brain that T#%kling is a threat. This increases sensitivity, or at least, perceived sensitivity. Now, does this mean you cannot hear the word T#%kle, often? No, no. You can hear it just as much as you can ask the braver person in the household to remove that scary spider for you. The T#%kler can be brave, and you can witness their braveness -- but you little piglet, you are not brave enough to let the letters spider their way from your lips.

Rule number two - take advantage of those moments when you stumble into T#%kles.

OMG, did they just slip the word T#%kle into regular conversation? For example: Imagine you're out to lunch and your date is looking through the menu. The waiter is standing by the table. There are people nearby talking - people who are well in ear shot - and you look at your T#%kler as they look down at you with a knowing grin. "Does the cappuccino T#%KLE your fancy today?"

And crap -- they really reeeally emphasised the word T word here. Do you want to teach your brain that you are comfortable in this moment? Or do you want to be weakened with nervous arousal? What do you feel?

Perhaps their knowing use of the T word makes you think of their fingers tracing along your sides? Perhaps you look at the waiter and wonder if they can tell you are aroused? What if you are turning red? What if your date uses the word again? What if everyone notices how weird you're being, and someone repeats the T word and then gets the idea to actually DO it to you?

Getting yourself into the best sensitivity mindset will build on how much you enjoy being tortured, and also how T#%klish you will be.

Rule number three -- meditate on your fantasies. Focus on details like what you might be wearing and how that exposes your weak spots. Imagine how you know that someone could tie you down and toy with you, how their knowing fingers would make you squirm. Does it feel like your skin is tingling already? Almost like nervous energy is pressing into the soles of your feet, your sides, your back, under your arms... you cannot escape your vulnerabilities.

Your mind can be set up if you think the right things and respond the right way to encourage a vulnerable perception. Consider the below questions and imagine how you would respond the next time you are caught with a T#%kler.

"Your T#%kler Says" -- Your imagined response

"Does that T#%kle?" - Did he notice me flinch? Can I pretend it didn't T#%kle?

"I'm going to T#%kle you until you cry now" -- Don't look scared! Am I blushing?

"Aren't you just a cute T#%klish little piggy?" -- My toes are tingling, this little piggy went to market... oh god, what if they start teasing with that rhyming song that stupidly arouses me...

"I want your soles. Now. I'm going to have them." -- Am I breathing faster? Stop it. Breath normally.

"If you don't stay still, I won't stop T#%kling you." -- Oh no. What if they find my worst spots? Am I tensing them up now? Did they notice? I need to relax so they can't guess where the spots are.

"It's amusing how weak and T#%klish you are" -- Is there even a good way to respond to this? Maybe if I just change the subject they won't notice.

"Don't make me T#%kle you kiddo!" -- Notice where your body feels nervous tension at these words. Really focus on it. Are your nipples getting hard?

"I'll T#%kle you if you don't obey me." ­-- Well now you're in trouble. How do you get out of this one?

"Nawww is the little baby T#%klish there? Riiiight there?" -- Can you really control how aroused you are? I mean, biting your lip, blushing, tensing, twitching, hiding parts, curling those toes.... Can you sit still knowing your biggest weakness is just inches away from being antagonised?

It is so easy to be T#%kled.

Your so weak and vulnerable to being owned.

A knowing T#%kler will get you, exactly where they want you. It's only a matter of time.

Feeling helpless now, little T#%klee?

If you think you can handle being punished with embarrassingly tingly shivery tickles, then why are you feeling aroused while merely READING them?

Don't you just feel yourself wanting to squirm already?

You are going to be found out, and someone is going to indulge in your most vulnerable weakness. It will happen.

What if someone discovers you reading this?

What if I can trace every single reader who clicks into reading this guide?

It's pretty funny how fucking T#%klish you are.

Why would a T#%kler miss the opportunity to track you down? You clearly want it.

Don't change your address little T#%klee, the T#%kler community will find you soon enough.

Every time you leave your house, close your eyes, go run your errands... simply existing is your vulnerability. You have an internet history. You have people who know your secret. Certainly, you have medical professionals and incidental interactions where the little T#%klee in you just couldn't help but flinch or giggle.

And one of those times, a knowing T#%kler will be paying attention at just -- the -- right -- moment.

GOTCHA!

Take a deep, deep breath.

No one is tracing your computer -- (at least not where I am concerned)

However, this practice is a mere example of how you can increase your sense of vulnerability -- with or without an actual T#%kler present.

Language is one tool to get yourself in the right mindset. However, there is also a visual side to T#%kling. Personally, I know that whenever someone wriggles their fingers in my direction - I feel a nervous shiver run over my most sensitive places.

There's no harm in playing with visuals such as this.

Watch T#%kle clips, view or create T#%kle art and read all the erotic sadistic filth about being T#%kled that you can find! You may not be able to say the word -- but you are also not strong enough to resist your own lust ridden desires, can you now?

Every time you indulge, remind yourself that this is because you are weak and desperate for this humiliating treatment... and when you are done... remind yourself that you're building a large trail of evidence for that next T#%kler to gain access to. Let be honest, you've read this far -- you MUST be desperate for someone to toy and tease you all over.

Now, back to the science...

These two tools - verbal and visual T#%kle prompts - help to heighten the anticipation of violation/threat when the sensation begins. Remember that the reaction towards T#%kling is caused by a combination of violation and normality within the touch sensation. Creating a better-quality T#%kle can be as simple as heightening your own perception of threat.

Obviously though, don't start including thoughts about actual things that can hurt you. You don't want to encourage a fear of anything else -- just encourage the little T#%klee inside of you.

Tools Beyond the Mind

Okay, so now that I've basically covered the mental ways to bolster the T#%klee within you, let's explore how the doing part of a session can affect us. The physical sensations play a large role in creating a good T#%kle. The question is: how complicated can T#%kling be?

The first tool a T#%klee usually experiences, is ten wriggling fingers. It's the only tool people always have on hand (pun intended). Now there are two types of touch, which cause a T#%klish reaction. Scientifically they are named and labelled below.

Knismesis and gargalesis

Two types of T#%kling.

Gargalesis, as mentioned before, is the kind of T#%kling where pressure is applied to sensitive spots on the body.

Knismesis is the kind of T#%kling which is very gentle and causes a tingling sensation across the skin.

Gargalesis is usually applied to the sides, hips, ribs, stomach, thighs, arse, underarms and knees. Techniques are squeezing, pinching, rough finger wriggling, poking and digging. As a T#%klee you may have areas which you know will be most vulnerable to this kind of touch.

Knismesis is generally applied to the feet, ankels, thighs, legs, backs of knees, back, neck, ears, sides, stomach , underarms, arse, and other more intimate regions. People use either their nails or their fingertips to gently travel across the skin. This can also be encouraged with a sharp sensation -- like a pen tip or the end of a feather.

As a T#%klee -- you will never ever be able to T#%kle yourself -- but you know your body best. Your mind will automatically force you to reflexively protect your "worst spots." You cannot hide the little signals your body reflexively communicates to the outer world. You are an open book kiddo.

If you have a session, which didn't stimulate you too much, know that it is just as much the job of the T#%kler as it is yours -- to get you weak and vulnerable with giggling humiliation. You may be more sensitive from one day to the next, as well as more receptive from one T#%kler to the next.

Below is a list of commonly used tools for a good T#%kling session.

Hairbrush

Baby oil

Toothbrush

Electric Toothbrush / flosser

Makeup brush

Restraints

Pen

Guitar finger picks

Forks

Fluffy pipe cleaners

Paint brushes / Feathers

Socks

Moisturiser

Warm damp towel

Now I could cover all of them and explain how they could be used, but that would take way too long. So here are a few things I think create for the best experience, and best kind of T#%klee.

Feet

Feet are super important. In fact. Rule number four is that all T#%klees should pamper their feet. Now it's actually less expensive that you might imagine. Moisturise your heels and arches and toes, put a damp cloth or wipe over your feet and slip a sock over it. Leave it for however long you like -- maybe at least 15minutes minimum -- and you will notice soft sensitive foot bottoms at last.

Keep them clean.

Some T#%klers may be aroused by dirty little arches that they can tease and shame you about. This is fine -- but having dirty feet is quick to achieve, whilst having well pampered foot bottoms is something that gets improved over time. Pamper those heels and if a T#%kler wants them dirty it can be arranged.

Manners

I suppose it goes without saying, but just because you want to be T#%kled, does not mean that a T#%kler will want to hear it. Ever T#%kler is different -- some may love a begging excited little T#%klee who asks them to do a session. Others will want a fearful and embarrassed T#%klee who is ashamed but secretly lusts for the torture.

There is no correct way to express yourself -- however a good T#%klee will try to understand the fantasy of their T#%kler as well. You are about to embark on an interaction that has two sides, and for the best session to occur, both sides must be understood.

Communication

The feather may or may not work on you.

Gargalisis may not work on you.

Anything to do with feet may not work on you.

Everything depends on what kind of stimulus your body responds to and that's okay.

Rule number five is don't pretend to laugh just to please your T#%kler.