by joy_of_cooking
I agree with TWW below. Spot on. Captured the real reluctance of the person pushed into the Domme role, as is usually the case. Five stars.
Yes, subs should realize the heavy burden they place on dom partners. Giving up control, agency, and responsibility, and foisting it on a partner isnt really fair. You have to "person up* regardless of how much you want to revert to the safety of obedience. The hard tasks and choices of adulthood and survival need to be taken on by everyone, regardless of how much easier it would be to just be a pliant Yes mistress" or " yes master" sub.