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Click hereNow that you've cuckolded your husband, your job as mistress is only beginning. From now on you have full control and you'll need to use it. Your husband will need a strong hand to guide him. You'll be telling him what to wear, what to eat, and how to spend him time and his money. His only purpose will be to serve to you. Here are some ideas on how to keep up the dominance.
Semen
On the surface your husband's semen can seem like an annoyance. It's messy, it tastes bad, and it stains linens. But actually it is a great tool for dominating him. The most common way to use it is to force him to eat it. Normally after a man ejaculates he wants to just relax and not think. He wants nothing to do with sex for a while. So having him deal with his cum after an orgasm is something unnatural to him. He absolutely won't want to do it. Therefore it will require a command from you and an act of submission from him - great practice for more advanced cuckolding. This is great training since he will be doing many more "unnatural" things later.
Do this by making the rule, "From now, on every time you cum, you have to eat your semen." If you let him jackoff, make him lick it up. If he's wearing a condom, pour its contents into his mouth. If he cums in your pussy, make him eat a creampie. You can get creative too, like making him cum in a glass then drink it at dinner. Or save each one of his cums in the freezer to eventually make a cumsicle for him.
He doesn't have to necessarily eat it either. If you really feel like humiliating him, you can make him cum all over his face and then not let him wash for a while. As his semen slowly dries on his face, he'll become uncomfortable and wish he had never cum.
Another related rule to make is that you no longer want his cum touching you. Say, "It's dirty". The contrast of him eating and wearing his own cum while you refuse to even touch it will speak volumes. You're obviously too good for his lowly seed.
His Penis
Another seeming headache for you will be you husband's penis. It's small, it cums too fast, and it doesn't give you pleasure. If you're smart though, it can be a useful tool in humiliating him.
Feel free to openly make fun of his penis. Call it demeaning nicknames like "Dicklette," or "Pee-pee." Don't call him by his real name either, refer to him by his penis, like, "Come here, Tiny". Let him know constantly that you think his cock is inadequate. Contrast this to praising your dildo. Let him be in the room with you as you masturbate with it. Let him know how good it feels to be fucked by a "real cock." Make sure to cum real hard on it. After you're finished pleasuring yourself, show him you used and pussy and tell him, "This is what my pussy looks like after a real cock has been in it." Then make him lick the dildo clean and to treat it like a holy object.
He will always want to be using his penis too, either by fucking you or by pleasing himself. It will be easy to deny him sex, but him secretly masturbating will be a problem. If you let your husband masturbate, he won't crave for your pussy and therefore the sexual power you have over him will be reduced. His release must be only through you. Forbid any self pleasure. Let him know that his penis is your property and that he's not allowed to sexually touch it without your permission. Definitely realize that he will masturbate no matter what you do unless you put him in a cock cage (see below).
Be openly suspicious about his masturbation. Constantly ask him if he's jerked off and let him know that you're on the watch for mischief. Also don't be afraid to spy on him to make sure he is obeying you, even if you don't suspect anything. Men are notorious for hiding masturbation. Setup a secret camera pointing at the computer, buy a program that will track all websites he visits, even look through the trash for sticky tissues. If you catch him, severely punish him. Masturbation is explicitly prohibited, his penis belongs to you and he is not allowed to use it.
Cock Cages
A cock cage is a chastity device that denies a man the ability to become erect, though he can still urinate and wear normal clothing. Most look like a little plastic cage that locks around the penis. It's impossible to keep your husband from masturbating without one, even if you could watch him 24/7. Men, if horny enough, can masturbate in seconds. You'd never know. In order for you to completely control your husband's sexuality you'll need this device.
To start, try to catch him in the act of masturbating. If you can't do that, find some porn on his computer. All you have to do is search for "Jenna Jameson" or search the cookies for porn sites. You should already have a rule that he can't masturbate, so once you catch him, you're perfectly inline to confront him, and then punish him with a cock cage. Tell him, "Since you can't control yourself, I'm going to do it for you". Once he's in one, you should control the key by at the very least hiding it. A great idea though is to keep the cage's key on you at all times as a necklace. The symbol of your dominance, right there, dangling in his face, is a great way to taunt him. If anyone asks about it, you can say your hubby gave it to you as the "key to his heart". Let him out for a cum every 3-4 days if he's been good and 5-7 days if he's been bad. Don't keep him locked up forever. The point of a cage is control, not torture.
Your Pussy
While you are busy making your husband's penis inconsequential, you should be doing the opposite with your pussy. Let him know the new center of his universe will be your vagina. His life should revolve around pleasuring it. He will be eating your pussy constantly and let him know it. Even if you don't feel horny have him lick your pussy. Have him talk to it, compliment it, and explain why it's so beautiful. After a long day out have him soak it and caress it. When you come back from the gym shove his face into it for a good long whiff. Let him know you'll no longer be using an alarm clock because you expect his tongue on you every morning.
The contrast of how he treats your pussy (the alter on which he worships you) to the way you treat his dick (something useless and to be forgotten about) will speak volumes.
Strap-ons
A strap-on penis can be a great tool to use while cuckolding your husband. Nothing quite says, "You're my bitch" like fucking him hard in the ass. Buy one that you are comfortable with then bring it home and show your husband. Tell him, "Since I'm man of the house now, I figure I should have a penis to fuck you with." Prepare him with butt plugs for a few days before to make him ready for a sizable one. Let him cum when you're fucking him, at least for the first few times. Even encourage it. You want him to equate getting fucked by you, i.e. being your bitch, to being a pleasurable experience. When you fuck him, make sure you use lube.
If you really have a need to get fucked, you can put the strap-on on him, over his penis. Then you can either ride him or have him on top. Doing this will satisfy you while driving him completely insane because all the other sensations of sex will be there. He'll be able to smell the sex in the air, he'll feel your hot body, and sense the passion in your orgasms, but he won't be able to feel anything down there. This will leave him extremely horny and frustrated.
The bathroom
Of course the house is now your domain, but this is one area you might have forgotten about. Allow him absolutely no privacy. Require him to keep the door fully open at all times when he is in there. If you have opaque shower curtains, get clear ones. Make him pee sitting down like a woman. If he takes a shit, make him apologize for the smell and if he doesn't apologize before you have smelled it, punish him. If you're feminizing him, he should be shaving in your full view.
Future lovers
One of the more challenging aspects of bringing home another man is picking the right one. Try to pick a man that is younger, good-looking, and more well-endowed than your husband. You want him to struggle with some jealousy. Before you chose one, sample a few. Inspect not only their obvious traits like penis size, strength, and stamina, but also their personalities. You want a man that is not to hot and not too cold, that is, he has the will to take control of you and your husband at home, but won't cross the line. He should be physically more prow than your husband in all ways and you should enjoy having sex with him.
To start, be honest with your lover immediately. Let him know you are married and that your husband is a huge wimp. Don't be completely honest with your husband though at first. You'll always want to keep him guessing. When you go out, allude to your husband that you'll be fucking someone else, but don't actually say it. Say, "I'm going out tonight with some friends, I might not be back till late..." When you don't come back until late, or not at all, his imagination will run wild. All sorts of emotions will run through him, concern, anger, lust, helplessness, etc... While you are out on the town flirting and dancing with other men, your husband will be at home in a state of mental anguish.
Before you actually bring another man home though, you'll have to let you husband in on what's been going on. Though don't have a conversation with him about it - show him. Start coming home with hickies, bite marks, or scratches. Have your hair be a mess, and your clothes on wrong. If he asks, feel free to tell him, "Oh that's from my new boyfriend. He's a little rough", but deflect any questions he has about specifics. Then after a while come home late one night, wake him up, and force him to lick your stretched pussy. He'll know immediately what you've been up to, but will not have time to think about it because your pussy will be right in front of his face. He'll have no choice but to eat you. Once he's gotten used to that, bring home your pussy filled with cum. Taking these steps will get your husband used to your infidelity and make it less of a shock when you finally bring a lover home.
Once you finally bring him home, introduce your hubby to him as your boyfriend. By now your husband should know everything about your boyfriend and what you've been doing. Let your husband know that he is to be respectful at all times when your boyfriend is here and to do anything he says. Let your hubby know, "Tonight a real man will be fucking me, not you". For the first couple times, go to the bedroom with your lover and lock out your husband. Make sure you are noisy though. Having him comfortable with the sounds of you being fucked will make it easier for when he has to watch. He might even begin to anticipate watching you.
When you finally let him watch, do all sorts of nasty things with your lover that you'd never do with your husband. Worship your bull's penis, voraciously suck it, deepthroat him, comment on its size and how much larger it is than your husband's. Let him fuck you roughly, let him cum inside you, give him your ass. Transform yourself into the slut your husband can't have and let him know that this all could have been him, but he willingly gave up his chance like an idiot.
Keep your husband actively involved in his own humiliation. Make him beg your lover to fuck you. Make him suck your lover hard or have him put your lover's dick in your pussy. Talk to him too, like, "Oh he's so much bigger than you," or "This is how a real man fucks your wife". Whenever your husband is idle, don't let him touch his penis, a good way to do this is to make him sit on his hands. Once your lover is finally finished with you, have your husband clean the juices off his penis with his tongue. Have him thank your bull for the great fucking he just gave you. Then make him crawl to you and clean up your used pussy....
Again, like part one, this is bullshit.
Don’t do this. This destroys relationships.
The assholes claiming this is good shit? Assholes. Or sick. Or both.
Why do this to anyone you care about? You do this to people you hate.
lovecucks is a troll writer, looking for a response and attention. Ignore this writer.
Yeah this is silly. Theatrics lol. Way over the top. Hate when porn is like this. Way much hotter for your wife to admitted another man's cock is stretching her and deeper than me. Look at me feeling slightly ashamed and worried it'll hurt my feelings too much. And be reassured when I moan and say good. That's so hot. And she moans and is free to enjoy her little humiliation kink she feels guilty for having. So hot. Just like it is playing on her fear/kink of being to loose for me. She came so hard when I first told her I love how she feels when she's loose and used and I slide right in. But don't worry if I ever miss feeling something tight. I'll fuck you in the ass. You ass will be all mine. She loved it.
Bull weighing in...
While some this of this is certainly true, cuckold relationships are much different in reality. This is a work of fantasy clearly written from a horny cuckold's perspective.
One area where they are correct is controlling the husband's ability to receive sexual gratification. You need a fully functional Female Led Relationship for it to work though. He has to want to obey and not displease you. Most men are fine with their wife telling them that their genitals are the wife's property, including the testes and all the fluids there in.
If you control his sexual release, you will control him.
Not fucking your husband though is a very bad idea in most cases. You will both need to stay emotionally bonded. Sex releases oxytocin and without it, he will become more distant from you and eventually you risk him leaving the marriage. You will also become unattached to him if you don't fuck him.
Ever wonder why "reclaiming" is such a big part of cuckoldry? It renews the bond between cuck and hotwife.
You can control a cuckold without doing any of the cruelty. This methodology will likely end in divorce.
Awesome! I’m locked until it rains an inch or more! If it rains, and it’s less than an inch, I have to call my friend and invite him over to spend the night with my wife. Of course we’re in a drought…with several pop up showers…none of which have made an inch of rainfall or more since March! This is July!!
This seems more like a BDSM, in which case there should be a section about Safewords. Also, there is a very VERY thin line between cuckolding and cheating and I would say this literature crossed said line. Whether it's the "hotwife, cuckold, open marriage," scenario, the husband always knows what is happening. So the whole "I'm going out/be back whenever," is all fine and dandy because that's obviously part of the humiliation. Hell, even flirting or dancing with someone else is fine. But actually fucking another person without your husband/partners knowledge, when you're out late or all night is cheating. Knowledge or lack there of is the difference between cuckolding and cheating; between betrayal and humiliation. As a bull, we're not advertising to be homewreckers. So stick to the "hotwife," scenario and leave this for the folks that need and want it. Makes our lives a lot less drama focused.
This is not cuckolding. This is fetish or BDSM, with cuckolding as a byproduct, because the traditional cuckold relationship has little or none of that.
How do I know that? I have been involved in many cuckold relationships over the years as a bull, never once saw a cage. Creampie eating yes, sucking my cock yes, denying him the opportunity to reclaim his wife no.
Properly categorize your stories
I really enjoyed part 1 but part 2 is a bit over the top. I would like to do many of these things for my wife and it would be a great game but i want to fuck her too. Of course, I never took this too seriously. I understand that there is game night and reality and that this is all pure fun.
Why be cruel. If you love your husband you need to make him your partner in the cuckold enterprise.
You both can improve your sex lives over the rest of your life together. I don't agree with belittling my soulmate.
Amazed there are men out there wanting to become a cuck! If my wife ever pulled that shit on me, both she & her "boy friend" would end with 9 mm slugs in their heads 2200 ft per sec. I'd plead insanity & sit in a rubber room & jerk off all the time without a cuck cage!
My wife has been cuckolding me before we were married. I watch her fuck three stranger on our honeymoon. My wife has denied me her pussy for five years. She gave birth to four bastard children. We do not know who the fathers are. My wife is knocked up with the another baby. She slowly introduce me to chastity belt, and I have not had an orgasm in four years. Pride, she would encourage me to master are to porn. My wife would lease me for masterbating six time a day. Now since I'm locked up, l lust all the time. She has sit in chair watching her being fucked by men. The more I lust, the more orgasms she has. I ask men to please fuck my wife.
this is what i did to my hubby now he is a shemale in a cage n does everything me n my lovers want n has no control to his body but us ...eats creampies n in hes foods too dresses in undies all the time n heels n makeup the kids love the new maid too ...
“When you don't come back until late, or not at all, his imagination will run wild. All sorts of emotions will run through him, concern, anger, lust, helplessness, etc... While you are out on the town flirting and dancing with other men, your husband will be at home in a state of mental anguish”
This is what it’s like to be a cuck, but not realize it. When your wife isn’t home on time, your mind starts to explore all of the sexual insecurities of being cheated on. These insecurities evoke painful emotions, which, somehow in the past, you managed to erotize unawares. The intense arousal you experience from these painful emotions reinforce each other and lead to mental anguish, until you’re jerking off to all of the sexual insecurities you have about being cheated on. As soon as you realize that you’re a psychological maschachist known as a cuckold, you’ll be in a state of cognitive dissonance.
“When you finally let him watch, do all sorts of nasty things with your lover that you'd never do with your husband. Worship your bull's penis, voraciously suck it, deepthroat him, comment on its size and how much larger it is than your husband's. Let him fuck you roughly, let him cum inside you, give him your ass. Transform yourself into the slut your husband can't have and let him know that this all could have been him, but he willingly gave up his chance like an idiot.”
Letting a bull take your wife’s anal virginity is considered one of the most humiliating and jealousy inducing ways to get cucked. Its permanence can establish the inferiority of the cuck compared to the bull, and creates a bond between your wife and bull that you’ll never have access to or change. Your wife knows that it will cause you to experience cuckold angst on a level you’ve never felt, which makes her want to do it more. Wouldn’t all of this apply much more strongly to vaginal virginity? My fiancée is still a virgin. I hope she decides to start cucking, and does everything with the bull. I want her to make me put her bull’s dick into her virgin pussy. I hope she waits to do all of this, until the first night after our wedding. At least she’ll be able to say she didn’t have sex until after she was married. ;)
We found a great cuckold guide written from the cuckold's perspective which is quite hard to come across />
Very hot and well written. The only thing that could make it better would be if she took up cigar smoking.
Annony would roll over and let her put a cage on his little pee pee
If a woman tried to do that to me, I’d pin her down and put a knife in her pussy. When it comes down to it we are stronger and I’ll fucking slice your face up
Now I am almost certain I know where my wife got all her ideas from...we were a normal married couple , but unknow to me she must have read this above.
I fit into your advice for my wife , i dont blame you, I was a compulsive masturbater, I was always doing it, even though we had a good sex life..
As you suggested catch him masturbating, and have hell.
She told me it was not fair to do it as it was not a good reflection on her, she told me I would have to stop, and the only safe way she could train me was with a chastity cage just for a few weeks., she bought one and put in on me., she told me I was to wear girls lingerie as well as they went together, she said it was for two or three weeks, she also got me hormone tablets to calm my penis but told me my nipples would get lovely and big.
I could not go out wth her on our usual Saturday night as my cage might show, so went with her girlfriend, came home very late .had a great night, met a gentleman. Would see him again next sat night. Dressed me more fem, luckily cage fitted well and got used to it after two weeks she said we better wait for the pills to calm down my penis. As we have to stop this bad hadlbit of masturbating
Very late again next saturday, lots of dancing and he kissed her they had good fun . She invited him for dinner which I would cook., she told him all about my lingerie and cage. And it has gone on and on
I am now cuckolded still in my cage, but he promised he would release me very soon .. he has the key.. he is very nice I like him and they make a lovely couple, I am happy with full lingerie and outer clothes. I sleep in spare room and he stays weekends and one night midweek, I think he will move in totally soon.
This is crazy dream. This is not possible,
I know some that live this life style, the most important thing that this person left out, is this a sub group of the BDSM community. Since it is part of this group the bottom or the husband always ALWAYS has a safe word. If this is a loving relationship, and the wife loves the loves her husband, she will make him know that she loves him, and if he ever uses his safe word, even if she is having the best and biggest orgasm of her life, and he uses his safe word EVERYTHING STOPS. Her lover (bull) has to so she can make sure he is safe. Her husband is her first PRIORITY, he is first in her eyes. Does she deny him ORGASMS, YES. But only the time frame they both agree on, does she push to make it longer YES, that is part of the game Does she HUMILIATE him, YES. But no more than what he can take, HE COMES FIRST SHE LOVES HIM ONLY!!!
Someone must be SIMPLY CRAZY to say,like a PERVERT in a previous comment, that "I loved it more each re-read"!If you do this,YOU ARE REALLY INSANE!
Another NONSENSE said in this bunch of crap is that "after a man ejaculates,he wants nothing to do with sex for a while"!WRONG!After they ejaculate,PLENTY OF MEN STILL WANT TO PRACTICE SEX,especially FOR THE PLEASURE OF THEIR PARTNER!It is,of course,unnatural for a man to eat his own cum,but THAT'S BECAUSE IT ISN'T NORMAL and IT'S A FUCKING PERVERSION,not because he allegedly wants nothing to do with sex!
To say that "semen tastes bad" in a general way,IT'S CLEARLY WRONG!Usually,semen DOESN'T HAVE A BAD TASTE!Try at least TO KNOW A FEW THINGS about what you are writing!
It was very much the textbook she used.
While she didn't say it outright I believe she wanted me to know I actually had little say in the process.
still a great how to.. and I love it more each re-read.
If you're a virgin, let the bill take your virginity instead of your husband. If he has anyone he hates (e.g. a rival or bully), let them take your virginity. Do all of this on your husband's birthday. Make sure to really rub in the fact your husband can never ever be the first person to use her pussy for sex. Really rub in the fact that it's his rival or bully that will always have your virginity. Your husband's mind will running wild more than anything else you can do. Threaten to out your husband to everyone he knows if he touches his own cock or asks for sexual relief.
i agree with liz33nd. It took me several moths to cuckhold my hubby but it has been well worth the effort. Seeing him dressed as a girl on his knees sucking my boyfriends cock is totally awesome. And being able to fuck whoever I want....it is just so great. Ladies, if you are not satisfied with your hubby or your love life, do think about cuckholding. You won't regret it.
I used this as a foundation guide in taking my husband to the next level in our Femdom marriage. We are happier than ever now that we know our roles in this marriage. Cuckolding has cemented my subby hubby into serving me with more passion than i could ever have imagined 💕
People are getting more worked up over this than politics! It's as if one persons' life, ideas, stories, fiction or not, is judge-able by them.
And why is "fucked in the head" everyone's goto? Are there really so many of you that are "perfectly sane"? Why is your idea of the world any more valid than someone else's?
You people toss the word "sick" around like its the most awful thing a person can be.
You say "seek help" like it's launching the killing blow of your conversation. Are you so haughty and "better-than" those with actual mental illnesses, or those who actually get psychiatric care, and you look down upon such people with such disdain, that it's the biggest most potent insult you can muster?
I just don't get Normies. maybe never will.
My husband and I have been discussing this for a while. He's actually wanting me to cuckold him. But what he doesn't know is I already have been for the last 10 months. Had he actually tried to taste his own cum when I wanted him to, he might have had a better chance of knowing that he was licking up another mans seed when he went down on me. Oh well!
getting him to suck a cock while you watch is awesome.. most guys want to at some pint in their life anyway.. just watch bi-porn and keep talking.. great tips..
Wonderful information, I have been taking control of my husband for the last two years, panties, bras, nighties, high heels, suspenders and stockings letting my best girlfriend's see him as a sissy with make up on for humiliation, recently I put him in a cock cage and after he is confident I am not sure if he will be let out, I am not a bad looker and have been flirting with a guy at the gym we have coffee and hug and kiss I can see he is huge and interested so he looks like my boyfriend, it will be so much fun getting that one into me, hubby will be sh*t off but too bad, I am the one in control and will be with both of them for sure
"When you don't come back until late, or not at all,......" That will be when your bags are packed and sitting in the driveway. If you ever get that far. Just another stupid woman story. Please write about the DIVORCE for Chapter 3. 1*
it's quite funny how feminism makes women more cunty and demanding than they already were. yeah, ignore men, because pussy makes you worth a divorce
I am in charge in all other aspects of my life. I would love to relinquish control to my beautiful wife. She should be the center of my world and worshipping her and her pussy is the ultimate satisfaction. If your hubby ever leaves you, marry me!
"When you don't come back until late, or not at all, his imagination will run wild. All sorts of emotions will run through him, concern, anger, lust, helplessness, etc... While you are out on the town flirting and dancing with other men, your husband will be at home in a state of mental anguish."
More women need to stand up for their sexual freedom. Us women are tired of the patriarchy dominating us, so it's time for women to turn the tables.
"When you finally let him watch, do all sorts of nasty things with your lover that you'd never do with your husband."
Save your virginity, so you can use it to cuck your husband with. Turn that archaic concept to our success!
How can a love grow if the person is forgotten? How can a person be important if this is the way they life. As a person who has played as a Dom, these types of post always makes me feel sorry that the wife doesn't care enough about her husband to push the total person up to explore but to not be self-centered enough that she loses the man she married.
LOVE THIS guide. its so funny how men can dish it out but not take it. This guide is very thorough and real. This advice is so good I will refer back to it many times in my process to train my guy. Ignore the angry men.. it is ok for them when it is the woman being cheated on and humiliated but when the shoe is on the other foot they are MAD. haha. love this.
One - you wrote this just to piss off the readership. You made it this bad on purpose.
Two - you were serious when you posted this. So the question that begs is this. Why be married? If neither is happy with the actions of the other, why not just get a divorce? Why humiliate anyone? What is gained for either party? The wife looks like a manipulative, self centered bitch. The husband looks like a spineless, prideless wimp. I see nothing erotic, sexy or entertaining about any of these conditions. So I must conclude that you wrote this one and only story just to piss people off. Which was a waste of every ones time.
This is so fake. Masturbation is the "disgusting" thing that gives her control yet is his reward later on. And his masturbation somehow becomes her excuse for turning into an abusive and controlling slut--not in the real world.
It's amusing reading the violent responses from guys who most likely have no issue with stories on guys raping gals, male dominance, or female humiliation...but a wife cheating and the guy enjoying it oh no the horror.
I love this guide. Forget the nay-sayers
A chap I once worked with was married to an idiot who listened to one of her "friends" tales about the fun she was having fooling around behind her own husbands back, and after a while with some encouragement from idiot No2 started to seek diversions outside of their marriage.
Her husband was to all outward appearance the quietest person you could ever imagine and an all round nice guy.
When she got caught, what she was not expecting was her mild meek little hubby to turn into the terminator.
He not only took a baseball bat to her erstwhile "Bull" but then went on to pay someone to throw acid in her face.
So be careful of who you think you're messing with because he could be a closet
psycho !