JXN_SingleMom

I know this is too long but it helps if you read it first....

I was just your average Mississippi slut, 6 months pregnant when I stood at the altar barely 18. I was naive enough to believe he was a loving husband and doting father so imagine the humiliation of having your own father finding pics of your husband with your friends - even the maid on our honeymoon! Not to mention the ones of his daughter no father should ever see! It was a slam-dunk divorce.

When the dust settled I was left with my so-called friends, most of who had either been cheating with my husband or at knew about it so I I decided I needed new friends. The big question was how to meet them? While sitting in a hot tub drinking too much wine, my neighbor and best friend revealed she and her husband were nudist swingers. Having known her since middle school (she was my first kiss!) and being in each other's weddings, it was quite a surprise. She suggested I try being nude with them to make new friends. Yeah, we tried swinging once but it wasn't for me. It was just too weird having sex with a girl I've been best friends with since 7th grade! Instead she offered to "loan" her husband to me a few times a month so i don't have to endure the dating scene. Actually it worked out for all of us as it gives her a chance to see a few of her own "friends". Over the years he's become a surrogate husband to me and father to my girls - a major concern as after the divorce I'd been worried about not having a father figure for the girls. While the nude dads of the families we came to know helped tremendously, it wasn't the same as what he provides the girls.

Of course at first I wasn't so sure about running around naked at home. Again my best friend was there to help me, offering to assist me in properly groom the girls just as they'd done with their older daughter. Over the years I had always commented on how well adjusted and happy their daughter was. Well, now that I knew the real reason behind it of course I wanted the same for my girls.

Nowadays me and the girls are nude pretty much 24/7 except of course for school and church. It's been more an an adjustment for me so I still like wearing a shirt or such when alone. It helps almost all of our new friends are members of the same church - it was amazing to me how many people I'd known for so many years without any idea they were nude at home! It's been more an an adjustment for me so I still like wearing a shirt or such when alone.

There is one decision I made at the start which has worked out well for everyone. Limiting our new social life to families like ours made it easier for the girls to adjust, especially when younger. It may be unfair but I trust fathers with nude daughters of their own so much more than single men or couples.

For the record I don't consider myself BI although I readily admit I love the warm feel of a naked woman against me. Sometimes my best friend and I will tease her husband but that's about it. For those who insist on asking such things, I do NOT have sex with my daughters so please don't ask. Of course we kiss and cuddle like any mom and daughter but being naked with them is more than enough for me. Finally, as I mentioned earlier I don't swing but of course when we meet a new family for the first time sometimes "introductions" are helpful but that's different.

It's amazing how something as simple like nudity has changed my life. After the divorce I was humiliated and depressed. Nudity has made me feel strong and independent, not to mention it's something I chose for myself and not because of my husband.