by Exile759
confident woman. The sheer magnetism of confidence is the foundation in which every other thing in a woman builds from. Having once been on that side of sheer unadulterated belief in myself it is amazing what difference in the woman then and the one now. You are right in everything you say. Outside the sex overtones to the story the bottom line is 2 words desire and worth. Either/ or are action and reaction of the other. Having known the confident side for the majority of my life it's overwhelming when your faced with the reality of the other. So many times its often at the perception of your own reality and often that is the understood perception of an outside force. As a woman we tend to compare ourselves to other women and we don't see their flaws but we see ours. Whether child birth, age ,or just simply hormone changes the reality is that most bodies change. But the desire to feel desired often is at the greatest when the complacency sets in. This is a disaster to the relationship. I think possibly the single contributing fact to why married people complain of the "no sex syndrome". I can tell you from experience that I have had the type of self sexual chemistry and it all started at the heart of confidence which feeds itself. I think your wife is a very lucky lady. It's been a very long time since I felt what you described but it's something every woman should be blessed to be able to experience...at the same it is devastating to your own perception should you find you no longer feel that way. Confidence is a euphoria that effects who you are and the people around you.That is a very powerful in itself.
-jrw